I'm just not attracted to DH anymore

[theworldhasfallenoutmybottom]

At all
There I've said it. Now what?
I love our little family and times we have but I just don't fancy him at all

How old are your children?
I'm afraid I'm going to be the one that suggests staying for now & trying to work on the relationship. And be open with him about the issues.

I think people should try their bests to make it work before calling it a day, if there are kids involved. So long as there isn't abuse / deceit

Does he care? If your life is good and you don't want to go around shagging other people, just stay and enjoy it for what it's worth. Marriages really can be for convenience in the long run.

Is he much older than you?

I split with my dh (now ex) 5 years ago for the same reasons, though there were other reasons too. He is quite a bit older than me, I guess when we met the age difference wasn’t that big but he aged pretty quickly and we grew apart. I got to the point where I didn’t want to have sex with him, didn’t find him attractive and we seemed to have nothing in common, I started spending a lot of time doing my own thing whilst he sat at home in front of the tv. I couldn’t carry on like it and he would get annoyed due to the lack of sex. Ending it was the best thing I could have done and I don’t regret it.