Hi all - I need some advice please. I'm in a relationship with a wonderful man and have been for 7 months now. We'd only been on 2 dates before lockdown and he moved in with me in March. We have loads in common, laugh all the time, great sex etc. However, his partner of three years died suddenly only a few months before we started dating (no children and they didnt live together). I understand he is still grieving and I have tried my best to support him and understand that he will always love her. She sounds like a wonderful person. I often tell him I love him but he says he can't say it back to me (although he is incredibly affectionate and loving). I also understand this. What I find difficult is that he keeps me secret from friends and his partner's family and it makes me feel like I'm his guilty secret and he's embarrassed to tell any of them about me. He's talked about us buying a house together but I don't feel like this is something we could possibly do until he 'comes out' as it were regarding our relationship. Should I talk to him about how this makes me feel or just continue to enjoy our relationship for what it is? Thanks so much.