To be pissed that DP doesn't talk to me?

[Turbotastic]

I just wrote out a long message and accidentally deleted it so I'll keep it short 😂

Aibu to be pissed that dp will go 2,3,4 days without talking to me, responding to my messages etc. Been together about a year and, according to a recent conversation with him, he definitely sees us as being long term and 'serious'. We are both in our 30's, no kids involved.

*FWIW we don't live together!

Is there any chance he could be married? Living a double life ?
Extremely strange behavior no way would I accept this .. dig deeper

Definitely not married, he's living with his mum at the moment due to Covid making everything go tits up with his work.

I've met his friends and family. We do stuff together just not as much as I'd like because half the time I can't get hold of him or he won't respond when I try and arrange something. We don't even have sex that much, by libido is way higher than his so I doubt he is being motivated to get in touch by that.

Either way it's not good enough for me.

Yep you said it. It’s not good enough for you. Sounds like life is too good for him at home with mummy.

Oh dear God no - my reaction on reading your posts @turbotastic. This relationship is so lopsided. You really need new man, one who replies to messages, has a matching libido, who makes your life better and doesn’t leave you feeling confused, angry and asking for help/advice on MN! Actions speak louder than words as a previous poster said and it’s so true. DUMP HIM and get someone who really cares about you 💐