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My ex fiance has gone back to his ex

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Unlucky89 · 29/08/2020 21:07

So, my ex of 8 years walked out 2 months ago completely out the blue. We had 3 children together, unfortunately our daughter was born premature and passed away 5 months ago.
I have tried desperately to try and get him to work things out with me he just says his heads not in it.
All whilst this is going on his been sleeping with me 🤦‍♀️ and I've found out his been seeing his ex who he split up with 11 years ago, they are in contact daily and his been to her house ect.
I just feel so broken 😢 I dont know what to do anymore, should i tell her? Why is he still sleeping with me, when his been seeing her?

OP posts:
ChangedMyNameYetAgain · 29/08/2020 21:11

Sorry about your loss. Hope you and your DC are ok.

PubicMenace · 29/08/2020 21:13

Flowers I’m so very sorry for your loss.

He is unbelievably selfish to march off leaving you keep it all together. Please don’t sleep with him anymore, he doesn’t deserve you.

You will get through this op.

cosmicbabe · 29/08/2020 21:16

I'm sorry about your loss.

Your OH is a sleep fish prick and having his cake and eating it. Mine did the same for 2 years... xx

Unlucky89 · 29/08/2020 21:31

Thanks guys! I just needed to let it all out. I just cant believe his actually doing all of this! I've been trying to get through the grief and making sure the kids are ok and his been planning his exit all along, I just cant believe that 2 weeks after leaving he was with her! after all the vile things he used to say about her! I just dont understand it 😥

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namechange20202020 · 29/08/2020 23:28

Oh my god; I'm so sorry for your loss. I don't even have the right words: Have you been able to get some counselling? It sounds like you need all the support you can't get. Do you have family and friends close by?

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