Hi anyone!
I just discovered yesterday that my husband is looking at porno sites on his computer. This has just finished me off. Approx 4 years ago i caught him giving a goodbye kiss to an ex girlfriend at a party lasting a bit longer that a good bye kiss!! He was very drunk and i put it down to that but he gets cross with me when i talk about it. Then 3 years ago we were on my abroad for my brothers 40th birthday with 6 friends - a beautiful weekend only he kept going outside for cigarettes on one occassion for 40mins with a girl we had met and then the next day was similar. Last Christmas i tried to wake him after a house party to switch off the gas fire as was scared to leave on. I had to keep nudging him to wake - then he laid into me and beat me. So that is why i am feeling so bad. I feel that I should ask him to leave but it would break my heart especially for the kids. It would rip us all apart. Am i being unreasonable?at the end of my