Lack of sex

[notsire4567]

Been together two months. Usually in a relationship in the past, it's been very exciting sex wise.

We've not seen each other for a week and a half, spent all of this evening in bed. Surely we should be not able to keep our hands off each other? It's really getting to me. If it's like this now, what will it be like in 10 years time.... I just don't think he fancy's me.

Talk to him? Maybe he's having a bad day or was waiting for you to make the first move?

It's not just today, it's anytime we're together. He seems happy. I feel so unsexy ...

Has it been like this for the whole 2 months or is it just now?
He may this evening have a problem with his digestion or his genitals that he feels he cant discuss with you. If he is having a nice time with you then you don't need to have sex. Maybe he thinks you're not up for it and doesnt want to l
pester you. Maybe he is very tired. Have you actually asked him?

If the whole relationship had been quite tame and you prefer more physical intimacy then you need to chat to him. Different sex drives can put a strain on a relationship and it's only early days.

Are you saying you spent all this evening in bed with him, but didn't have sex? Why were you in bed then? Did you say "hey, let's have sex"?

It's been like this most of the two months. I've spoken to him a few weeks back and he said he didn't think there was an issue. Maybe it's just different sex drives. Makes me feel rubbish.

It's a stormy night so we've just been chilling in my room.

If you don’t resolve this, it’s not going to get better. It’s time to communicate. You have needs.

It's been two months and you've started a thread. It's supposed to be fun at this stage of dating - move on!

"It's been two months and you've started a thread. It's supposed to be fun at this stage of dating - move on!"

This. It may well be about different sex drives and no-one is at fault but you're just not suited. The bottom line is that if you are needing to post for advice two months into a relationship, then it's almost certainly wrong for you.