no need to even read this - I just need to write it.

[mckenzie]

Dh and I have got on really badly all day today. Even when we were apart for most of the day we managed to sort of argue via text messages. This afternoon we have been biting each others heads off and he has just bitten my head off asking him to follow through with his requests to DS rather than letting it go when DS doesn't do what he's been asked to do. All minor suff and I think it's just because we are both tired. We both had a very early start yesterday and DH had a very late night last night (working til about 1am) so it's not surprising we're tired.
I feel better now for getting all that off my chest. Thank you mumsnet. I shall try and be a nicer person tonight as I dont want it to spoil our sunday together.

Hate days like that. Well done you for letting it all go. Its just not worth sweating the small stuff sometimes. Have a nice Sunday.

we all have crap days like this, whenever i look into why dh and i argue, its always because we are tired, stressed about money or i'm on mumsnet

if he had a very early start yesterday and a late night then why dont you tell me to gave a lie in tomorrow and bring him brekkie in bed this will warm his heart and remind him why he loves you but remember you are due a lie in next week!

dh told me to lie in today and i slept until 12pm!!! could not beleive it! i obviously needed it and i felt so much better today.

i think you both need some love and care, its tough being parents as we have to take it in turns but we shoukd remember to pamper each other.

goodluck

tell me???? mean tell him... thinking about myself - sorry

good tip mummylove.
I let DH have a lie in this morning until 9.15 (would have been a bit longer but DS decided it was time for Daddy to wake up! I was rewarded with a lovely sunday morning romp and now everything is fine.

Mckenzie, I am glad you feel better for writing it all down. Sometimes half the problem is not being able to 'talk' about it...but it seems to me that you know why this problem occurred and in knowing you have solved it yourself.

I hope that your day and then your week gets better.
Love Bunglie XX