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DH is a hermit, always has been but since corona its worse!

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musicmama18 · 23/08/2020 13:21

Since having son 2 years ago things got a bit worse with no sleep etc., but now coronavirus he doesn't want to leave the house - hardly ever! He stays home A LOT and doesn't want to do anything together as a family - go to a local park and that's it literally.

Really struggling here, as our son is so much easier to manage out and about - I take him out everyday and do stuff.

DH has booked 2 weeks off work (although he works from home and literally sits in room or does house diy)

we don't have any plans to do anything and he doesn't want to go away/staycation nothing..

he was like this before but it's getting a lot worse. I am not in a personal financial position myself to book and pay for us all, although we now have a shared account, he's a bit funny with what's booked/paid for when it comes to experiences and fun.

he doesn't know how to have fun!!

only mid-thirties and son is 22 months..

very boring husband and can't see it changing :( his dad was the same, literally didn't leave the house for 2-3 years and now he is repeating the same pattern.

i guess i could just do things with my son alone. but that's not the life i had in mind, i though having a baby would re-ignite his lust for life and excitement for doing things but i think he's more of anxious.

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