My period is late (although both HPTs so I'm sure it's just late). However in the two conversations we've had in the "what if" scenario he said one day that it would be ok but yesterday he said I had to have an abortion. We already have 4 DC between us and we really can't house another one at the moment (we'd have to sleep in the sitting room). I wouldn't be able to have an abortion. I didn't with my first and I'm sure if I couldn't that time much less I would be able this time. We will eventually get enough money from my trust/inheritance to buy a much bigger house, so it's not like it will be forever. I'm sure he was just tired but I'm sure if this leaves the ground to have a more in depth conversation about it. I did say my peace this morning by saying that he had to have the snip, if he's so adamant he doesn't want to have another one he has to do something about it.