my husband around about 2013 used to be horrible to me, everything was my fault. I remember he used to say when i asked "do you love me? He would say "i only say i love you when i mean it, it loses it value if i say it all.the time" i did sort of shrug it off, but he got worse, shouting at me when i went near him when he was "cleaning the kitchen" with the door shut. It was horrible, the worst timeof my life, everything ws my fault and he sulks, hes a big sulker still, tonight we had a row because i deared to tell him he left an open meat packed with blood in it on the work top and their was alot of flies on it. I was so pissed when i seen it when i came home, but hes sulking as a deared to mention it !! Weve been married for 21yrs he sulka virtually every fucking day!