Just broken up with DP after 4 years.

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As title really. A few of you would've seen my post of a day ago under a different UN and I had one in November when I moved out of his house.

I just wanted to say thank you to everyone. In November I remember posting in tears, shaking with adrenalin while sitting in the car waiting to collect my DD from school after leaving him. While I drifted in and out until now (DD hasn't seen him since then), it was that initial support and the strength I was given by so many lovely MN posters that enabled me to feel justified in my decision. I have properly ended it now and it is done with. It has taken me time to get to this point but I am here now.

Since then I'm flying. I'm at college doing access. I've lost 3 1/2 stone. I'm so much happier and I'm me again, no longer worrying about turning out lights or squeezing the toothpaste wrong.

Thank you. Kind, wonderful, brutally honest people. Thank you.

Wow, what a great post, so glad you are doing well and in a better place.

Here's a great place to be when you need help and advice, so glad it helped you

Thats great to hear. Well done for staying strong. The only way is up from here

How lovely. Yay for mumsnetters.

Thank you OP, I really needed to read this today

What a fantastic achievement. You had the strength and you dug deep for the resources to do what was necessary for your own good and that of your child.

Well done, and I wish you all the best.

Well done - Look ahead of you , you new life is waiting 💐💐

Thanks everyone! You know, I feel on top of the world tonight!

Well done you. Fantastic news.
Wishing you happiness for your new life.

Well done OP and thank you, I needed to hear this tonight, too.

Made up for you OP. Your confidence is oozing through your post 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

I am so glad you are happy and you have found yourself again, amazing. Well done and wow 3 and half stone, thrilled for you