My boyfriend's mum and sister have a huge problem with me basically because I wouldnt accept parenting advice from the mother. She was trying to feed my dairy allergic baby cold jars of milk filled baby food when my back was turned and wanted me to cry it out etc etc. Opposite parenting style, and was abusive to my boyfriend and his siblings in the 90s so definitely not someone who I would take parenting advice from. Stood my ground with my choices as a parent and was very diplomatic with them when setting my boundaries. They both started constantly messaging me abuse on Facebook, making posts about me and rallying people in their neighbourhood against me with packs of lies.
I deleted Facebook and had a bit of a dark moment trying to get over the daily abuse and fear, bumping into them in town at times etc.
Fast forward to now, I am feeling left out as the school mums have set up a group on there for arranging play dates and I am sad I can't be a part of it. This evening I'm feeling glum about it and decided to bring it up with my boyfriend. he isn't at all sympathetic and just tells me to delete and block if it happens again. He can't see that if I go on there and they start harassing me every day again I will be miserable. He thinks that because he would be able to deal with it by simply blocking them that I should be able to do the same thing. He won't accept the fact that it would upset me, as it did before with the messages and hate campaign. I have told him multiple times that I wish i had someone around me who would cuddle me and sympathise when I'm having a moment, and maybe even someone who would distract me with jokes or something when I'm sad. He got angry with me when i said this and said I moan all the time (I dont) and he's sick of hearing it and that when he tries to do anything to cheer me up I throw it back in his face (I don't recall doing this). He also said that when he tries to get me to play board games with him I just say no but thats because im partially blind and don't currently have glasses due to them breaking during covid. He was kind of nasty about me having a sad moment and made me feel wrong for having the feelings in the first place.
Should he be supporting me through these moments and have my back? Or is his colder response to my problems normal? Thanks for any replies.