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I don’t know how Snapchat works as I don’t have it. I am out of a cheating relationship and have made crystal clear I will not tolerate any kind of sneaky fucking about.
He handed me his phone to google a restaurant number and it was in history list.
Dirty Snapchat is never going to innocent is it?:(

I mean some people use it for shady things but others just use it for look at this picture of today’s coffee. I would ask him what he uses it for and then ask him to delete it.

I googled it. I didn’t want to. Ffs. Why get in a relationship and tell me he would never hurt me
I can’t compete with these people

Coffee? Could it Be innocent! I just saw women offering videos of themselves for free

Don’t assume he uses it for shady goings on. Not everyone does. In fact most youngsters have it for just stupid hijinks (like TikTok).

@BingoSwingoWings

Coffee? Could it Be innocent! I just saw women offering videos of themselves for free

On his Snapchat? Or on google when you googled to find out what Snapchat is. Snapchat is just a social media type app where you send pictures or short videos they stay for like 10 seconds and then they disappear. You can put funny photo filters on and stuff.

Had he googled 'dirty snapchat'?

Snapchat does have a shady side. Ask him what he uses it for?

Better yet, ask to see his snapchat best friends list. If he doesn't show you, you have your answer.

I’d had a few gins last night so was a bit tipsy and emotional when I posted. I’ve worked it out now.
I woke up at 4 and couldn’t get back to sleep so came down and googled it again, you have to agree you are over 18 and then it’s all filth.
He doesn’t have snapchat but from having a snoop on his phone I can see it has been downloaded so he is obviously downloading and deleting it. (No wonder he made a show about leaving it laying around and not worrying about me seeing him type his code in)
After what I went through with my ex I can’t be bothered with this. It reminded me when I stood in dog shit the other day, I quite liked the trainers but not enough to spend the time cleaning up the shit, so the whole lot went in the bin!
I will be telling him it’s over when he gets up.

Thank you for the replies

It reminded me when I stood in dog shit the other day, I quite liked the trainers but not enough to spend the time cleaning up the shit, so the whole lot went in the bin!

OP I think I love you!

OP, I love your zero tolerance to bullshit! You're an inspiration.

Yadnbu about not tolerating rubbish from people. He sounds like he's up to something if he's deleting the app. Hope you can get rid off him easily and find a nicer man next.
I do think Yabu to throw shoes on landfill cos they had dog shit on them.

DirtySnapchat or # Dirtysnapchat is a separate (sub)genre of snapchat images and redit thread. It's pretty much very dirty/sexual/explicit photos and chat.

Isn’t it basically a version of porn?

Could he have had it prior to your relationship and deleted now you are together?

He may have deleted snapchat before we were together but the internet search for ‘dirty snap chat’ was very recent. (It came after a search for car parts he bought last week)
I don’t view it as porn if he he speaking directly with other women.
@AngusThermopyle could you please explain this a bit more as I e never used reddit either. Would he do an internet search for the people posting in reddit, and then need snapchat to talk to them? Thanks in advance for any info.
I don’t want to think I have been hasty in telling him this isn’t working out for me. I don’t live with him and he’s gone off to work looking very confused. I thought it was just good acting on his part

Reddit 'dirtysnapchat' is an 18+community where people (all sexes/gender) advertise or announce the explicit /sexual stuff theyre doing, for others to join in or comment, You can chat to people in the thread like here on Mn, but see more images if you're actually on snapchat, so you can also find them with their snapchat username to share in the explicitness.
Theres also a Twitter #dirtysnapchat and a pinterest dirtysnapchat too.

@AngusThermopyle thank you so much.
This was never innocent so I’ve packed every bit of his stuff up in bin bags and left it on his drive.
Not going through that again
I know a lot of people will see it as porn but if he is interacting with people it was a no from me.
I’m pretty sad but I have my house and my cat. Fuck him

Sorry you are going through this op, I don't think I'd be very happy with this situation either. 💐

❤️❤️ well done op loved the part about the trainers . I'm exactly the same as you I have been through all this for years with my ex and if it happened again my current partner would be gone . I would literally throw ten years of us out that door x