Ex (high conflict) and I can’t co-parent, his girlfriend doesn’t want me contacting the kids when they are there yada yada but the icing on the cake was the discovering that they (ex and his girlfriend) have not been social distancing and mixing households and having people stay over during recent contact when the children were in the household.
These are grown adults in their 40s not students so ‘crashing over’ to me is just ridiculous in itself under the circumstance they are.
I will be told I’m over reacting if I say anything but having been on lockdown entirely on my own with them to have all guidelines thrown out the window for some random man to not have the inconvenience of having to get the train back from their trip - hours in a car without a face mask.
I mean I don’t have the words. Please tell me I am overreacting! I have not put them at risk in any way since this all began so Im beyond upset.
Besides the serious health implications, the only break I will now get since this happened has been ruined because of the risk. That’s not of course my main priority but it’s just another layer of fuckery to many many others including the not giving a toss about anyone’s welfare.
To be fair this is the same guy who told me he wished I had died giving birth to my youngest child. That was on a nice day.