If your ex was on a dating app would you want to know?

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My ex and I split 2 years ago. He pulled out the midlife "script" to a tee and of course an affair later surfaced.
Fast forward two years and he has been on and off with this woman but did introduce her to our children and had her over last Christmas.
Then today a friend told me that she'd seen him on a dating app.
I'm glad she told me but now I really want to ask if he's split up from OW. I suppose apart from the schaudenfraude "told you so" satisfaction of it, it would be nice to be reassured that I won't run into her and she won't be spending any more time with my children.
But my only option is asking him. Would you want to know? Should I just bite my tongue?

Why bother it's his life. You have your life just get on with it

It would be weird for him to tell you if he was on a dating app. I guess he should tell you if they separated for the dc but then again it doesn't sound like you both communicate well.

Also if your dc like her and now they aren't together you should think about that because the next gf doesn't equal being better, she may not be the other women but she could be a whole heap of Interfering