Are these camgirls/sex workers ?

[Seriouslynotagain]

I found out my ex partner was following three local young women On FB. Do these look like cam girl links or local sex services? He has said he doesn’t know who they are which is a bit tiresome. We are recently separated and I am moving forward but need to secure our house and I don’t want him trying to take the high moral ground which is what he is currently trying to do. I asked him to leave the family home due to his relationship with alcohol but he has not disclosed the last detail to anyone as in full denial so I am currently the bad one.

[* *Edited by MNHQ - pic removed **]

If all of her "friends" are male, then I would expect so !

Looks that way yes.

You can still see the girls name on that photo OP.

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Have you tried clicking her link? It won't do anything sinister straight from the off, will just take you to a page for her room or webpage. It looks as if she's selling something sexual using social media as her platform.

“Looking for some dick to suck” (charming) suggests to me that she is a sex worker looking for work.

Don't pursue trying to make him see the light or take responsibility. If he's an active alcoholic, he won't, and you'll only end up being hurt more. Just cut off contact; trust yourself. Because you do know.

Will you gaining the moral high ground cause issues in securing the house?

And what would you do with this cam girl info? Tell his family, his friends? He'll twist it anyway - that you threw him out and as a single man he can do what he likes (true), that you're bitter/jealous/controlling etc and always have been. He'll make himself look like the poor victim. And those who are in denial about his drinking already will still side with him.

I'd concentrate on the winning the war, not this particular battle. Be angry, be disgusted by him, but keep your sights on what is really important: getting him out of your life and securing the family home and maintenance. His drinking will come to light eventually when others have to deal with the consequences instead of you.

Thank you. He started following them three years ago which is when I was on ML with our youngest. If they had been recent follows post separation I would not be concerned.

I think I just needed some more clarity about what has happened/make sense of things in order to really draw a line under things.

I will try and remove the image now

I came in this thread expecting to say that you were worrying about nothing. But yeah, this is pretty open and shut

@Thingsdogetbetter yes he is very good at twisting things.

He has agreed to sign over his equity in our home to our children when I am able to take over the mortgage. I have just returned to work FT so need to build up three months paperwork first. I just didn’t want him to change his mind. I’m not looking to blackmail him with this info - not my style but it does help me move forward with a bit more determination and less likely to take any nonsense. He did say that he did not know who they were and he probably followed them without properly checking. Sweet!

Yes. Even from the limited information I would say it’s pretty clear this woman is involved in some form of sex work.

If he consults a solicitor, and you were married, then moral high ground counts for nothing towards a financial settlement.