I met a guy and we started dating (he’s in the army), we had been dating for two months and things were going great. I didn’t tell any of my friends about him because I didn’t want to get too excited and jinx it, he was talking about marrying me someday and even told me he loved me on the first date. He was so romantic and lovely, we didn’t have sex because I was scared of getting hurt then finally we did even though my gut told me to wait a bit longer (but I didn’t want him to think I wasn’t interested). Anyways I ask if we can swap instagrams/social media and he’s being a bit weird about it, he finally does and I see a woman commenting kisses and hearts underneath his page and commenting bae. I go on her page and she is praising him for what a wonderful husband he is and tagging him in a pic of them two together and has in her bio saying mama of two and wife of (the guy with his name tagged). I confront him and he denys it, unfollows me on insta and deletes his Instagram and he promises me I got it all wrong and we go back and forth for ages and he lies about everything and even trips up his own lies. He refuses to go back on insta to prove I’m getting the wrong end of the stick then he just leaves and makes me feel like I’m accusing him and I’m wrong and making him look like a cheat saying he was never married and she’s confused and blah blah blah. Anyways I’m left here now crying my eyes out broken hearted over this guy that I gave my body to who I really thought loved me. And now he won’t answer his calls and I feel so empty inside. I can’t even ask the woman if she is married to him as I deleted her insta and forgot what it’s called. I’m just so hurt and don’t know where to go from here :( I posted this before but don’t know how to add the bit about him being in the army. I feel so stupid he was just wasting my time and my friends told me not to date an army guy cause they always have wives. I feel like that is a generalisation but now I don’t know :( I’m so hurt