OLD- Was I rude?

[Year2020]

I met someone recently on OLD. I am in my 40s, him 50s. We exchanged numbers and started texting. His texts turned sexual immediately, I politely told him that I would prefer not to discuss sex.

Arranged to talk last night, I completely forgot and replied to his text this morning before going to the gym. While I was in the Gym, he answered my morning text with sexually charged words.

I was so upset and texted with with this message, "I have decided to block you, learn to talk to women not their p..sy. Some of us have brains.

To honest, I don't give a damn if I was rude. Sexting is a real turn off for me.

Uhhmm, okay then. Not sure what the AIBU was as it seemed like a vent using common sense vs a question?

I think sexting someone you've never met is weird, so would have blocked him without comment from the first sexual text.

Not rude.

Nope, not rude. Perfect reaction

Well done!

Let's hope he learns his lesson although I doubt it!

I think that you should have blocked him at the first time he became sexual. I love your retort xx

Who cares if you were rude? Was he bothered about your feelings when he sent you the sexual drivel despite you asking him not to?

Nope not at all. Like others I probably wouldve blocked him after the first time, but then I can be an unforgiving bitch . You gave him the benefit of doubt, he didnt take notice of that, see ya mate. Who has time for that shit in their 40's. Your response was spot on and I do similar all the time so crack on, he was a twat.

Might have been better if you hadn't used p..sy. You should have blocked him the first time he did it.

Not rude at all. I think more men need to be called out for this. However it all depends on what other women deem acceptable. If he has got away with it in the past he probably thinks it works.

I’ve had a guy who I never even met and had just exchanged messages with start wanking over the phone to me once. When I realised what he was doing as he had had gone quiet as he started off I called him a furry bastard and ended the call. And block!

No.

But the basic point is that if you weren't looking for only sex too, there was zero point in continuing to converse with him anyway.

Great text! He deserved it. Good for you. What a sleeze.

I’m a bit about the “some of us have brains” comment.

I do a lot of OLD and therefore the sexual comments are practically inevitable - I just block and ignore or say “I’m not looking to engage in sexual chat with someone I’ve never met”.