Met someone rather unexpectedly and we have been seeing each other for 3 months. Early days but after being single for a very long time I really like him. We have spent a lot of time together in those 3 months and want the same things in life etc. It's amazingly easy and straight forward so far which is a good sign I think. Before I met him I was planning on buying my own small property, for me and DD. We have talked about the future in terms of both wanting more children but haven't said to each other we want children with each other etc, it's still early days.
So my question is do I buy my small house as planned for me and DD? And don't include him in the equation? Obviously it's far too soon to live together now, I'm thinking more about the next year or so. We are both late 30s so time is not really on our side if we want children together. Saying that I know it's only 3 months so don't want to jump ahead of things. If it did get more serious, we could potentially buy a much bigger place together and have a child together etc. But I don't want to move and then move again with DD. Sorry this is a bit jumbled. I haven't felt this way about anyone in a long time and always thought I'd be single so actually meeting someone who I really like has been a surprise. But I'm also realistic and know things might not work out. Wondering to what extent I should include him in future plans? I could put house hunting on hold for a few more months or not. Wwyd?