Gonna be a long post but I'm at my wit's end now and don't know what to do anymore. Been with partner now for 3 years and have a one year old child together o have an 8yo and he has 3 children from previous relationship. All 5 children are currently living with us and I watch them while he works during the day. No one helps around the house including partner and I get no help from him with 1yo. It's taking its toll on me and when I say to him he goes mad saying I'm lazy he works all day it's my job to do he house etc. I don't mind doing things but I do everything even pay all the bills as his ex still claims for children which I've to allow or the house gets smashed up with his anger or has me in tears with name-calling. Earlier there he told me their visits to mums changes to a different day this week and because I said he should have asked it was ok with me first instead of just saying yes as always... I was annoyed as he still does whatever she demands even though we have them. Then he went off on one again banging doors calling me vile names again. I can't take it anymore he didn't want me to have our 1yo as it would upset his other kids..more like the ex and she has done nothing but slag me off and my child and he still allows it.