No sex drive.

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Is this normal? I have an incredibly low sex drive. My partner is good in bed and when we do sleep together there never an issue with achieving an orgasm however it's so rare I'm in the mood. We probably have sex 2/3 times a month and its led to my husband questioning whether I still find him attractive. I love him a lot and do find him attractive. It's just rare I look at him and feel that kind if way but I'd never tell him that as I wouldn't want to upset him. I just don't know what to do. Our relationship is fine apart from this.

I’ve felt like this basically since the start of lockdown. When we do have sex it’s amazing but most nights I just cannot be bothered and would much prefer to just snuggle instead. Fortunately DP feels similar so it’s not an issue.

I wonder if it’s that we’re always together nowadays and spend most evenings watching tv whereas before all of this we’d both be out several times a week separately so it felt more exciting when we did have an evening at home together.

I do make myself at least once a week though because I do feel like it strengthens our relationship for a few days afterwards.