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If you suspected your husband of an affair, WWYD?

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SomethingsUp2345 · 29/07/2020 19:05

He's been acting a bit weird for a while, my senses are telling me something is off and tonight I approached him unawares (not intentionally) and he flipped his phone over very quickly and in a guilty manor.
I can guarantee it wasn't porn because we are both partial and in all these years have never done so with the doors open and the kids in and out at 6pm after work...

I don't want to go into more detail because I don't want it to be under scrutiny.

The point of the thread is - what would you do if you suspected?

He denies all wrong doing. He's never been unfaithful to me before and I've been with him for about 22 years and we have a kids mortgage and obviously married.

Do I just sit on it and ignore my instincts?
Do I follow through and leave (I can't do that just based on a feeling and some weird and minor changes in behaviour).
Or do I sit and wait (for how long? A month? A year?!)

It's never crossed my mind in a million years to look at his phone and I he has a passcode as do I for security and I've no idea what it is and not have I ever cared.

WWYD?

OP posts:
pumpkinpie01 · 29/07/2020 21:50

I have a friend whose brother is a private investigator, it was actually quite surprising what he charges I thought it would be hundreds and hundreds but quite often he has found out cheated spouses for less a £100. He can't argue with photos .

Veiaola · 29/07/2020 21:57

Listen to your gut instinct.

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