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Does no contact work at getting someone back?

34 replies

cccro · 27/07/2020 16:19

He treated me like crap.
Messed me around.
I always ran after him,chased him.
He knew I would always be there.
I snapped yesterday and told him I was done and I wouldn't be speaking to him again and look after yourself.
He replied ..well that's up to you, your decision
Since then he has stopped viewing my Snapchat (even tho he has been on ) so is purposely avoiding looking.
Will no contact make him realise he has been a idiot ?

OP posts:
JorisBonson · 27/07/2020 19:25

@Palavah

OP did you post about this situation recently? It sounds familiar
OP is a prolific poster of the same problem.
midsomermurderess · 27/07/2020 19:31

I think the poster is 14.

user1294625849274 · 27/07/2020 19:34

You have posted so so so many threads about this loser.

backseatcookers · 27/07/2020 20:19

Oh my god every time I get caught out by this poster under a variety of their names! If it is the same person again then sorry but...

He. Doesn't. Want. You.

That's it. It's literally that simple.

Come on now, move on.

JorisBonson · 27/07/2020 20:26

Everyone gives such good advice and has done for months, and it's absolutely wasted.

8HannaH8 · 27/07/2020 20:26

I'm sorry your hurting.

I think since your split was so direct and cut off that possibly it isn't fully over. His nose will get the better of him and in my experience you do generally hear something again from them but u may not necessarily welcome it whenever that may be. At that point hopefully you will be over it but I do think most men do try to crawl back at some point... He will no doubt have a bit of fun and freedom but if that dies down or noone else is taking him on then yeah he will be in touch.

In my experience with a quick split like that you will hear something. It's an awful feeling waiting though so I would suggest... Don't wait, and don't expect. Try to work on you and find distractions.

I hope you feel ok soon

SandyY2K · 28/07/2020 00:01

He treated me like crap.
Messed me around.

You need help and support to explore why you want to be with a man like this?

Why don't you think you deserve better?

crimsonlake · 28/07/2020 00:19

FGS let it go and stop posting about it under different guises.

PastMyBestBeforeDate · 28/07/2020 00:25

No contact means "I have had my fill of your behaviour and I know you will never change so I am shutting you down for good to protect my long term mental health".
Anything else is playing games.

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