Bit confused, need advise

[krolnur]

Hello folks, I've got a bit of a childish situation here. There's this female whom I really fancy, a co-worker to be precise. I am starting to have a thing with her, which is actually becoming something more serious with each day, and the reason for that, is that at some point I thought she liked me ( well I still do, I am very naive when is comes to relationships ). You know how girls behave, she always smiles at me, tries to catch a glimpse of me as we don't really work in the same area. I always felt like there was something genuine about her, as I tried to get her know better, the more convinced I was that I am actually starting to really like her. But maybe that's all bullsht that I made up in my head, as she actually has a boyfriend, or had not sure. I know that guy she dates/ed, we are not friends, but we are on the good terms. Every time I ask her about him, either she ignores the question, or answers in the very cold manner, so not sure if they are still together. I am in a bit of a confused situation, not sure what to do. I have a strong feeling that she likes me, and if I actually talk with her about how I feel, I am afraid I might cause some inconvenience.

Seems she is toying with you, like a cat would with a mouse. Poking you just enough to get a reaction, but she doesn't actually want you.

I could be wrong of course.

You can either....

Step right back and cool off

Or ask her out on a date.

@Greenkit

Seems she is toying with you, like a cat would with a mouse. Poking you just enough to get a reaction, but she doesn't actually want you.

I could be wrong of course.

You can either....

Step right back and cool off

Or ask her out on a date.

That's exactly what I think :/ but I am feeling like a miserable fart, for not having a courage to speak with her :/

Are you basing her supposed attraction to you on the fact that she smiles at you and looks in your direction when she's in your work area? Cos that's called being friendly, not flirting. If that's your only indication she might like you, then yes this could all be in your head.

What do you mean by "you know how girls behave"? I find that's usually said by men who thinks any friendly gesture from a woman, such as smiling while doing their job, is full on heavy flirting.

I presuming that her lack of or cold answer about her maybe boyfriend is because she's wondering why some random from work keeps asking her about it. You say "everytime" you ask so how many times? How well do you actually know her as that's a very personal question to repeatedly ask a co-worker unless you're good friends.

I don't think she's that interested, she's avoiding the subject of her love life, if you fancy someone, you make it known you're available and some flirting.
Smiling/catching your eye doesn't mean that much, I do that to all my colleagues, I hope I'm not seen as creepy lol.

Try and build more of a friendship with her, go out on work socials.