Hi all. My husband of 21yrs left in January. He has left and come back several times over the years. Myself (44) and the kids 19 and 14 are doing well. My only problem is he told me he is OLD and i cant get the idea of him with someone else out of my head. He is a good man but never fully committed to us and insisted on having a second address and spending his time on all the things he wanted to do. When im being realistic i know he was not putting effort into being a husband and partner. He never bothered to make time for us but happily talks to me with great energy about the passion he will put into his new relationship, getting the snip and the buzz of all the messaging. Why cant i see hes not the catch he thinks he is. One last thing im hung up on him coming back some day saying he made a mistake...all help greatly received.