Only just recently found out their was such a thing. But I honestly think my husband feels like it about me. Last few years I’ve had a gut feeling he’s not attracted to me anymore even though he calls me beautiful or sexy but I don’t know whether it’s insecurity in myself or because I know he’s just saying these things to keep me happy.
He doesn’t ever really say anything nice about specific things, I’ve asked before what he likes about my looks to see what he’d say and he just said everything. I told him what I liked about him most his eyes, body etc. But he just says “everything” about me and I feel like it’s a cop out to actually answering the question, it feels as if he doesn’t have anything specific.
Am I just being mental?
Last week As I was saying bye to go to work I said I loved him and called him old blue eyes ( something I say now and again) and he said I had snot eyes. 😂. Snot eyes!? It actually hurt me thinking about it after ( I have green eyes) so makes me feel like he doesn’t like the color of my eyes either. It’s actually made me feel like shit! He said it was a joke and I have beautiful eyes but he can’t take back what he said and it’s added a bit to my insecurities.
He also doesn’t initiate sex often and when he does it’s normally when he’s had a few beers. I just feel like he doesn’t find my attractive and don’t really know what to do. Theirs no advice to be given really as I make an effort with my appearance I just don’t ever feel Good enough.