Brief history is we were together four years and very close. We began to argue a ton after moving in together and that's when he started becoming verbal. Examples were names and swear words when he wanted the argument to stop. It wasn't every time, but often enough to start effecting me. I have left and he has gone to AM. Some days I'm good but other days my anxiety is through the roof. Since leaving him, I am scared of him. I don't know why? I felt ready to go out and date again. Every time I go out with my girls, I get constant attention of men asking why am I single?. Because of the way I look, I don't have trouble meeting a man, I have my pick. I just feel ashamed because I didn't choose to be single, I didn't want to be in this situation. Do I be open and honest and tell a new man why I left my last relationship? I feel I will never get past the damage my last relationship did to me. I hope this all makes sense
TIA