DH came to me early this year and said he wasn't happy in the marriage. In all honesty we haven't had a conventional marriage the whole time we've been married. We've had good and bad periods but we've always come through the other side and got on with it, accepting this is how it is. He now says he's not happy and can't continue with our marriage as it is so wants to call it a day. I'm fine with this - I've felt for a while it was only a matter of time before someone said something and it just happened to be him. He says there'll be no immediate change. The house needs some small jobs doing to it if we want to get top price for it (nothing major) and as he does all the DIY slowly and surely, I can't see anything happening anytime soon. He also says he's not in any rush. However, I think I need to start thinking now about what I need to do or think about to prepare for my future. So wise ladies, got any tips to help me gather the info I should be gathering? Thx in advance