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Original poster

Is somebody still awake?

28 replies

Flyingfish2019 · 19/07/2020 02:01

Hello

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WeMustGetOffTheMountain · 19/07/2020 02:03

Are you ok? Something you want to talk about? I'm here if so :)

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Flyingfish2019 · 19/07/2020 02:05

I just had a shitty day. How about you?

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par05 · 19/07/2020 02:08

Same here! Does it keep playing over in your head?

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Flyingfish2019 · 19/07/2020 02:11

@par05 Yes, sort off... and I am drunk which doesn’t make it better... and no typically I drink very little.

I did something mean to my dh today. I exposed him to peoples ridicule and people made fun of him.

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ElizabethMainwaring · 19/07/2020 02:14

Op this will be deleted too soon if you're not careful.
You're not doing yourself any favours here.
Have something to eat and go to bed!Flowers

par05 · 19/07/2020 02:15

Is your really dh upset about it?

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Flyingfish2019 · 19/07/2020 02:17

May I please ask why the f... this thread should be deleted?

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ElizabethMainwaring · 19/07/2020 02:18

Because you keep starting threads about the same thing

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Flyingfish2019 · 19/07/2020 02:18

@par05 I am not sure. You often don’t know how he feels about things. Can be pretty stoic sometimes.

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Flyingfish2019 · 19/07/2020 02:19

@ElizabethMainwaring Err, no, this thread is not about the controversy on the facemasks thread.

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ElizabethMainwaring · 19/07/2020 02:20

Okey dokey. Apologies

CarrieMoonbeams · 19/07/2020 02:21

I'm here because I had an unexpected 2 hour nap earlier, so I'm wide awake now.

Why did you do that to your DH? And who was there? Family, mates or colleagues?

par05 · 19/07/2020 02:24

Hopefully he is ok, is he asleep? I'd maybe apologise to him in the morning, and you can't take back what has been said, so have to move on from it. Tomorrow it might not seem so bad.

ConiferGate · 19/07/2020 02:24

@CarrieMoonbeams me too!

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Flyingfish2019 · 19/07/2020 02:24

@CarrieMoonbeams Why? I think because I was drunk and I am not used to drinking and then I just realized that I had told people very private things.

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Flyingfish2019 · 19/07/2020 02:25

@par05 Yes, he is asleep.

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lughnasadh · 19/07/2020 02:27

On here, or in real life?

Because if you mean the shit show you posted here, this thread is plain attention seeking.

par05 · 19/07/2020 02:27

It happens, and you said you don't drink often, we've all been there. Try not to dwell on it.

Shutupyoutart · 19/07/2020 02:27

Im here because my son came in to our room and took my phone and rang his new pre school teacher and then threw me the phone and i think i left her a half asleep voicemail saying what the fuck! so now im wide awake worrying about it and he's gone back to sleep! hope you are ok op.

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Flyingfish2019 · 19/07/2020 02:28

As I said before this is not about the other thread... which was by the way not a shit show. I chose the wrong words and I am sorry - but I think others on the thread have not been very friendly too but as I said this is not about the facemasks thread.

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1forAll74 · 19/07/2020 02:31

People can say all sorts of things after drinking too much., good and bad things. so don't worry about it, especially as your Husband has gone to sleep. and maybe snoring happily. !

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Flyingfish2019 · 19/07/2020 02:33

@par05 and 1forall74

It’s nice if you. Thanks a lot.

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Shutupyoutart · 19/07/2020 02:35

Im sure he knows you were drunk and didnt mean to upset him op id apologise in the morning and try not to beat yourself up over it.

HannaYeah · 19/07/2020 02:39

Does he know? If not I’d not mention it. Tell the people you spoke to tomorrow that you feel like a jerk and shouldn’t have spoken that way.

If he does know and went to sleep upset, I’d make sure he knows immediately when you woke up that you are sorry. Put a post-it note somewhere he will see it when he wakes up!

bettliefsen · 19/07/2020 03:12

@Flyingfish2019

As I said before this is not about the other thread... which was by the way not a shit show. I chose the wrong words and I am sorry - but I think others on the thread have not been very friendly too but as I said this is not about the facemasks thread.
What is this thread about then ? If you tell us we can perhaps help instead of thinking it's yet another TAAT.
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