Mis Matched sex drive

[ididntmeanit]

In 40s

He's happy for one a week or so, not spontaneous, planned, ie Sunday morning.

I want it more, want him to want me and desire me, be spontaneous. The sex is good when we do have it.

No kids. Loved together 4 months.

Am I asking to much or do I cut my losses and end it and seek wild passion.

So it's still early days? I would give him a chance to change, if he can't then cut your losses and find a wild sex lover! Go for it girl! We only get 1 life do you and always be happy

What happens if you approach him at random one evening/morning? How does he respond?

I’d sex is really important to you and it’s early days, I’d probably cut my losses tbh..

When I approach him he will kiss me and stroke me then stop! The only time he wants to do it is when he says do you want to have sex?!

How was it before you moved in together?

You don't sound compatible I'm afraid OP! If this is a problem at 4 months and without kids, I would say it's likely only to get worse!