Yes hun, I feel much better in some ways. A relief to know that there is something that we can work on. I can now bite my lip a little less painfully coz I have thought more about "how" to approach a subject etc. It does scare me too coz I know the sort of person DH is and I know I will have to nag him to get some sort of support or diagnosis.
I am one of these people at times where I cannot help those who won't help themselves. I am the one who has to do a bit of changing here.
I have mixed feelings but in my heart I feel more relaxed somehow.