Ok so my rocky two year relationship ended recently. I know I shouldn't waste much head space thinking about it but I'm just trying to figure things out and move on, which is hard, because he happens to be a close neighbour.
Anyway so when it ended it was by text. It was a disagreement and he just put something like let's call it a day then as we're on different wavelengths and I was like oh honestly fine, I'm done. That was it.
Looking back now it seemed he often pulled the "let's just break up" card when we argued, from the beginning earliest arguments. I remember one argument early on when he was sitting on his bed and remember him clearly saying oh just break up with me then or something like that bear the end of a big argument. I am quite sure he did this many times during or following arguments.
What do you make of this? I find it quite odd behaviour especially for someone more than a decade older than me (approaching fifty).
I know I am better off out of it. Just had this realisation. I wonder if he expects me to try crawling back after this latest event, where I actually agreed with him and was yeah I'm done. (I think after most arguments I always came back to him apologising). Well he will be waiting for a long time as that ain't happening.