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help my relationship is rubbish..

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pandagirl03 · 27/09/2007 23:27

My relationship is rubbish, i keep trying to talk to dp and he says he will change etc but this last's 2 days if that. Basically dp goes to work then comes home sits infront of the tv or sits on the comp eats his tea then straight back on the comp until he comes to bed. In this time he will say about 2 words to me at most and this is only if i speak to him. I just feel so lonely and unwanted. I have tried again to speak to him and he just said to me i dont want to discuss it anymore either because im sick of it too. What do i do now. I feel at a loss. Sorry for ramble and not even sure if this makes sense.

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InMyHumbleOpinion · 28/09/2007 00:28

I am going up to bed now, please have a think about your options, and please come back to mumsnet if you need more advice. There are much smarter people than me here.

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pandagirl03 · 28/09/2007 00:29

yes i am a sahm, altho we rent a 3 bed house, the rent we pay is cheaper than any 2 bed house/flat around here, i would really really like to stay here if possible. I would be gutted to lose this house aswell.

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pandagirl03 · 28/09/2007 00:30

i best get to bed too, thank you so much for your help. I will try and find out tom the situation with the house. then go from there i think. thank you again.

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Tortington · 28/09/2007 00:50

do you have a rent agreeement or a tenancy agreement?

you have to know whose name the house is in. you can't just kick him out if he has a legal right to be there.

if the rent is cheaper than other places tht are smaller the chances are housing benefit will cover the cost of the rent. and your landlord is guarenteed his rent.

the only problem is that HB can take a fair while to et through - and to not piss of your landlord - you should think about saving some money ( secretly) to plug the gap. it will be hard but once HB start paying - and back pay the rent you can ask for it back - make sure you get reciepts.

you shoudl start squirrelling any money away that you can. i have often relieved a comatose dh of the contents of his wallet. you need to get some back up cahs behind you

you need to know for definate how much gas electric council tax etc will cost.

you shoudl see what benefits you are entitled to on entitledto.co.uk

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