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I’m so confused

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damnthisvirusandmarriage · 09/07/2020 21:35

So DH and I are separated. He’s emotionally abusive etc.

He’s been in touch today.

I really don’t want to be with him. But also don’t really want to put up a fight. Thought I did. But I don’t.

So, the thing I’m most terrified of is him having the kids on his own. He isn’t very responsible. And is emotionally abusive. And had a terrible anger problem. And has been smoking weed.

How can I get by these feelings when they have to go there alone? I know I’m not the first woman to feel this and won’t be the last but OMG it’s the worst part for me tbh.

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damnthisvirusandmarriage · 09/07/2020 21:37

I am having counselling. Albeit over the phone. And this is something I’ll talk to her about....

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Fairycake2 · 09/07/2020 21:51

How old are DC? Do you have concerns for their safety while they are with him?

damnthisvirusandmarriage · 09/07/2020 22:13

Some times I definitely do. And then I’ve just seen him tonight and I think I’m being unreasonable as he was really lovely.

I’ve done that ClAires Law thing with the police as I’d quite like to know their thoughts on past things that I can’t get to the bottom of myself.

I can’t decide tbh. They are 4&6 x

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