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I'm also dyslexic so excuse any typos please.
I've been with my DH for 20 year since we were 17 now mid 37 we have two girls 3 and 6. This year has been a really bad year for us I've been diagnosed with an illness although it's treatable I've been very tired and quite unwell. Also my DH left his very well paid job over 100k to start something new with a friend of his. I'm a SAHM for now until my youngest goes to school. We've also got some property which generates an income to allow me to stay home. My DH smokes a lot of weed probably 2 to 3 per night during lockdown and weekends and holidays before. He's also been on antidepressants from the doctor which is just suddenly stopped.
We've been fighting lots but yesterday it got particularly nasty sadly the girls we were around, he thought moved some thing I hadn't and he started to smash around in the kitchen throwing everything out of the cupboards it was actually terrifying. Some Disgusting things were said on both parts. I'm a terrible mother I'm scum and he should have married on his level rather than someone from a council house. He later text me while stoned asking me not to stop him seeing the girls my response was I asked him to leave. He wouldn't! Today he's told me my car has gone up for sale and he can because it's in his name.
I don't have access to any accounts I just have a set amount transferred to me monthly. I'm totally trapped. I don't think he's going to let me leave with the girls and he won't go. He's said he's going to destroy me. Help what can I do?