Is he cheating update.

[Cat112344]

So a few weeks ago I posted about how I thought my OH could be getting lifts off another woman etc and he had been shaving etc down there. I found his old phone in his bedroom draw completely wiped. Still had his sim in though. I went onto his WhatsApp and saw he had about 12 numbers blocked. A few girls, one girl he had blocked on Facebook and on WhatsApp. I messaged her to ask how she knew him, she was immediately defensive and messaged my OH saying Your mrs is asking questions. I messaged her again to which she replied ‘he got fucked out’ (I know charming) after him denying saying he’d never cheat whatever I asked him to leave to
His mums for a bit. He’s been there 2 weeks. I’m heart broken . He can deny all he wants I know what happened and god knows how many more there’s been! Trying to stay strong, it’s so god damn hard 😭

Shit. I remember your thread very well and I remember how suspicious it all sounded but with no actual proof.

I’m not surprised but I’m sad for you. You’ve been very strong to go after the truth determinedly and not allow yourself to be blinded by the wipes phone and excuses.

He’s welcome to all the mingers in the world now. You are so much better than him. You will come out of this better and stronger in the end without such a scumbag. Sending love ❤️

Thankyou to the ladies supporting. To the ladies calling me out for calling her a minger, she is. Not only psychically but also inside as she knew we were together and she knew we had 3 children. She also has a partner. So before you get on your high horses about me not praising her, think about if the man you loved shagged someone else behind your back. Would you think they were attractive? Would you compliment them? If you did you’d be an idiot.

@Cat112344 exactly!! She’s Horrible inside and out! nobody is saying he isn’t the one in the wrong here, but she played a massive part too! Can’t believe there are so many women willing to be the other woman, heartless! If her partner had found out first would you have wanted him to tell you? Just wondering if your planning on telling him, hope your okay! Xx

If I’m honest I’ve cut all contact with both of them, I can’t even bare the thought Of looking at her page etc (she lives around the corner from me). When I messaged her she pretended she didn’t know him but she knew his age, that we lived up the road and even referred to me as a baby mom (when messaging him) 😌 xxx

Also we have a mutual friends that I’ve bought this up to and she said she’ll be telling him. X

@PicsInRed

They affair down because they get more "admiration" and "gratitude". They are made to feel more attractive and don't feel self conscious they way they may with a particularly attractive and/or accomplished long term partner.

Call her what you like OP. It's your tragedy, deal with the immediate shock how you need to. Ignore the puritans. 💐

I love this reply! I'm going to pinch it to use in RL discussions. Thank you! I also have 3 children op and split up with my cheating husband 2 weeks ago. Feel your pain. X

@Cat112344 well done,
Must be so hard for
You! As if you got told off her calling her a minger, I think if I knew where she lived I would be banging at her door glad the mutual friend is going to pass on the message, and it’s not for revenge or to cause trouble but He has the right to know and decide himself what he’s going to do. I hope your starting to see the light at the end of the tunnel, you deserve better than a cheating liar xXx

I’ve decided tonight I’m going to blast some songs about cheating and cry🙃 I’ve tried to keep it together these past few months I just need to let it all go... fuck him and her

my ex husband cheated on me with a big fat thing called Rosemary. she was horrific. he said she was a means to an end. some women are mingers, fact.