My ex from 4 years ago we were addicts together. He beat and raped me badly people called police many times and needed hospital treatment a few times, but always refused to press charges. Because I was a addict I had such a low opinion of myself I didn't think I deserved better, and I seriously thought if I just showed him the unconditional love he claimed he never had he'd change. I was a idiot I was of my bipolar medication and being honest my head was such a messed up place I wouldn't wish it on anyone. By the time I left I was too weak to go through pressing charges and just wanted out of there and only had the strength to crawl out.
Well I've caught him in my street a few times, even though it's no where near his house just assumed he had a friend nearby.
A friend of mine said my ex was questioning him, the friend is a friend of his family but not my ex, but doesn't want to make any kind of statement to police as he is good friends with the rest of the family, he just told me to warn me.
The friend told me my ex knows which car is mine despite only owning it since December, he knows my mother has moved out which happened in March and knows where she is living. He also knows I have been having sex with someone. My friend asked him how he knew and he wouldn't answer. He kept asking my friend a lot of questions about me my friend says.
I'm thinking about just ignoring him and he will get bored and move on and leave me alone. Thinking giving him attention will just make him worse. Plus I am tired and just want to be left alone.