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Estranged husband planning to move new girlfriend in to family home

17 replies

Catloveisreal · 02/07/2020 19:50

As title. Me and my 19 and 22 yos are gobsmacked.

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Redannie118 · 02/07/2020 19:51

With you all still there?

wishingitwasfriday · 02/07/2020 19:51

Ok. Do you still live there?

SunbathingDragon · 02/07/2020 19:51

Do you still live in the family home?

notapizzaeater · 02/07/2020 19:51

Where are you?

needhandhold · 02/07/2020 21:02

It’s only an issue if you all still live in the family home? Do you still live there?

BluebellForest836 · 02/07/2020 21:08

If your all still living there then just chuck her stuff out onto the street over and over again

LouHotel · 02/07/2020 21:08

If you still live there then can he actually do this as you would have the right to call the police if theres someone in your home you don't want there even if their a guest of someone else.

AnyFucker · 02/07/2020 21:10

Are you going to tell us the rest of it or not ?

NotaCoolMum · 02/07/2020 21:19

More info definitely needed 💐

NamechangeOnceMore · 02/07/2020 21:20

If you still live there, this is a handy prompt to get your divorce sorted, separate your finances, and live separately from now on.

If you're not still living there, why is it any of your business? Do you control which friends and relatives he's allowed to have to visit?

You need to give us more info before we can comment really!

Either way, it sounds like he's well and truly over you and moving on, so this is your cue to hurry the divorce along and make sure you're financially and legally separated from him.

needhandhold · 02/07/2020 22:06

Definitely need more info

JacobReesMogadishu · 02/07/2020 22:07

Have you moved out?

stealm · 02/07/2020 22:12

Are you all still living in the family home?
If you are, then it's completely out of order.
If none of you are then it's none of your business.
If you are living somewhere else but the 19 and 22 year olds are still living in the family home it depends on how long you've been separated etc.

Bananalanacake · 02/07/2020 22:48

How long have they been together. It's pathetic how some men can't possibly live on their own. He wants someone to cook for him and wash his pants. Wonder how soon she will get sick of it.

Catloveisreal · 03/07/2020 14:02

OK to clarify me and my kids still live here. He flits between our home and hers. He is abusive and police involved. Don't want to be too outing but he's volatile. And he wants the house and me out.

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Redred2429 · 03/07/2020 14:12

Speak to a lawyer op they will be able to advise if there is anything you can do

stealm · 03/07/2020 14:46

So he's going to move the new girlfriend in to force you out?
Get some legal advice asap.

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