I've got a headache!

[Fonzie]

Why is it that they only time DH initiates sex that I really can't be bothered? We're trying for number 2 but DH seems to think that's an excuse to be at it all the time! Any ideas as to how I can let him down gently?

hi Fonzie

my Dh and i have kind of come to an arrangement over the years whereby if one of us fancies sex and the other one is too tired or just doesn't fancy it then it's up to the initiator to try and 'persuade' the second party to join in. So for example, if i'm the one who's too tired i might just get a wonderful all over body massage from DH which either makes me fall asleep or turns me on so much that we end up having a good romp. Sex always makes me sleep better so i normally end up going for the second option and thoroughly enjoying myself. And if DH can't arouse me enough/tempt me out of my sleepy state enough then he accepts that i really must be not in the mood. In turn, if I fancy it and he doesn't, I have to work my 'charms' on him to persuade him otherwise.

Quite often we find that these incidences end up being some of the best sex.

Hope this isn't too much information [smile}

Just tell him you are sore because his willy is too big... that'll pump his ego up suitably to get him over the fact that he isn't getting any.