I have recently told someone close to me how upset and hurt I am by some of their recent actions
I wasn't expecting an apology, they are not like that. But I was not expecting the rage i got. They told me they were not bothered about speaking to me again ( not prompted by me saying anything like that myself ) and that I needed to apologise and grow up
I replied saying I wasn't going to apologise for saying I was hurt and upset and I was going to start keeping myself to myself from now on
They have now messaged my partner saying i need to sort myself out and if i dont apologise i will force them to make a decision i will regret
Its not a normal reaction that is it. I'm going to have to cut contact with this person and I am shocked that they have reacted this way