Hey..so I’m almost 8 years into my relationship and we have 5 kids between us that all live with us 2 mine 1 his and 2 together..but I feel like a lone parent he does very little to help with any of them
His answer to everything is to throw money at it which has its perks but it’s not what I want or need if he comes near me sexually it makes me feel bad to say but I can think of nothing worse..he’s a great guy as a friend and not actually done anything specific wrong but he drinks smokes gambles I do none of those things every weekend is the same just hundreds of pounds chucked away On gambling sites sitting on his own while I look after the kids the pandemic has actually shown me how much I don’t really like him I don’t want this anymore how do I tell him he will turn it and say I’m hormonal ect I 100% don’t want it but I don’t want our kids Or him to hate me either Please help