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I'm i overthinking this?

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bluebellll · 23/06/2020 20:56

After TTC (trying to conceive) for 7/8 months and now pregnant I can't help but feel my sil is not talking to me as much as she normally would do. Now I understand why because she went had a mc and but it's still hurts me because it's affected our relationship and she no longer contacts me like she used to. Do I give her space and time to process it or do I just accept that we may never be the same again?

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Carlottacoffee · 23/06/2020 21:04

I’d just accept it’s how things are for now. I know you feel hurt but it sounds like she is dealing with her own loss by avoiding you.

Concentrate on your new baby she will come around Flowers

Scarydinosaurs · 23/06/2020 21:05

Give her space. Losing a child is dreadful. Just be patient.

TorkTorkBam · 23/06/2020 21:07

Give her space. Don't make her sadness all about you.

JustC · 24/06/2020 08:22

Give her space to deal with it. Also not good for you to constantly stress about it while pregnant. Hopefully things will get back ro a better place after a while.

familys2018 · 24/06/2020 08:26

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familys2018 · 24/06/2020 08:39

Oh shit so sorry 😂 how I wrote this on your theewas I don't know ! Il try do get it taken down now . I ment to post this on the actaully relationship forum xxx

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