How do you get over him when he doesn't want you?

[happyclappyc]

Dating,sleeping together.
Then he tells me he doesn't want to be with me.
He doesn't want to be with anyone,thought he could leave behind his womanising ways but wants to sleep around every weekend.
Texts multiple women,sleeps with any Tom,dick or Harry.
He has been single for 6 years now
We chat every night on the phone at 7 pm
Get on well,I know he fancies me.
I know he thought about being with me but chose not to be.
How do I get over him?
Why does he have to sleep with so many different women /text so many different women.
No matter how nice I dress up when I go was out with him,he would check out any woman he could.

Why do you want to be with someone who is treating you with such a lack of respect?

You're being used. He doesn't care about you and you are still clinging on.

You need to cut him off completely. He is who he is. Sorry.

It's so frustrating and I feel like I'm torturing myself.
I don't think I can get over him when I'm talking to him every day.

Then stop talking to him every day?

Stop talking to him then, obviously. He doesn't give a shit about you and treats women like disposable knickers. Raise the bar.

What do you like about the big phony? Someone who knows you like them and yet keeps you dangling on whilst flaunting their other conquests infront of you, is a scumball.

He isnt even your friend.
Block his calls and retrieve your self respect.

It's so frustrating and I feel like I'm torturing myself I .don't think I can get over him when I'm talking to him every day.

Stop talking to him every day and stop torturing yourself. Tell him not to call or text, block him, and move on with your life. WHY ON EARTH DO YOU WANT TO BE WITH A USER?

You need to cut contact. Also think of what a 'lovely' guy he is to all those women. How many do you think he ghosted? How many do you think fell for his lines, only to be tossed aside next week? What about this is there to love?

This was me in a previous life - the best thing I ever did was cut him loose. 8 years on and I still don’t really understand what happened between us but it doesn’t matter anymore, I’ve moved on, met someone else and got married.

Stop talking every day, stop looking for signals and most importantly put yourself first!

You have to delete his number and block him on everything. Cold turkey is the only way if you don’t he will keep you dangling and you will feel shit