He told me he loved me 10 months later

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I don’t know how to feel about this. ExBF and I were together from approx May 2019–August 2019. We spent a few days together in July 2019 which ultimately led to me breaking up with him. He does know the reasons. Family crisis struck a few days later and I was trying to get through it and he kept bothering me during this (after I said several times I needed time before we talked again).

Cue him being blocked during that crisis as I needed a lot of time to think and get through that crisis. Anyway a few days ago a mutual friend created a group chat with her me and him. Things were slightly tense so overall I then unblocked him and we got talking.

Only for now him to tell me that he loved me. I don’t know how to feel about this as I used to have feelings for him before the breakup but I didn’t love him. It was too soon

I do not know what you mean. You do not love him . Chat if you want.

It's a three-month relationship a year ago. It wasn't right for you then. Doesn't matter what your ex thinks or how he feels. How do you feel? Him saying he loves you now shouldn't change how you feel.

Did you know him prior to your relationship? I think if you weren't really feeling it before, I don't think you'll be feeling it the second time round.

If you broke up after 3 months it’s clearly not a go-er is it.

Because he told me he loved me I kind of feel guilty about breaking up with him now. Not loving him back. We knew each other for a few years before our relationship, and towards the end he kept trying to do couples truth or dare with one of the questions being is it to soon to say I love you (which IMO is certainly was)

I suppose it’s just that I feel guilty because I was his first “love” and I didn’t love him back I guess ... (Sorry, this is my first relationship so I’m trying to figure things out there still)

No way were you his first love, for that it would of been mutual. He had a crush on you but it didn't work out, he maybe wanting to give it another go - question is do you?

To me it sounds very love bombing and immature.
And you don't seem interested in him if you were you would of spoken long ago

Your friend is a flying monkey.

Block the ex, and reconsider the friendship.