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In need of help... sad and confused

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Mummy30inneed · 20/06/2020 01:18

Hi, I’m in need of advice. I’m 30, been married 5 years (together 8) with 2 gorgeous little girls. My husband has cheated in a lot of different ways, in person, via txt, photos, websites, the lot. Even though it may sound crazy to some that I am only here now, but I have reached the point where we’ve done the therapy, the endless promises, the changes. Everything. He is not going to change, I see that now. I want to leave but my problem is, not only am I financially reliant on him but I am also disabled and I have spinal deterioration so I am physically dependent on him too. I want to leave but I have no idea how I will cope or manage to do this on my own. Does anyone have any advice or experience with the above to try and help me. Right now, I am just so scared, my little girls adore their daddy but I won’t let them grow up to think that that is how a man treats you. This is going to be so hard for me and I’m scared that I won’t be able to physically manage. All advice is appreciated. Please no harsh words, I know a lot of people would have left before now, but the important thing is that I am here now. Thank you.

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1235kbm · 20/06/2020 01:33

You could contact Scope to find out what help you could be entitled to should you separate: 0808 800 3333 Monday to Saturday, 8am to 8pm and Sunday, 10am to 6pm

Get in contact with Gingerbread for anything child related such as working out maintenance and child contact.

Check out the CABx guide to separation and divorce.

The Family Law Panel has solicitors some of which have free legal clinics and a sliding scale for those earning under a certain amount.

Aquamarine1029 · 20/06/2020 01:37

I'm so sorry about all this, op. My heart is breaking for you. Do you have family you could turn to? Don't forget that you are entitled to half in event of divorce.

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