This is so petty but I'm getting so frustrated with how much of a brat my partner can be sometimes.
Bit of background; I am 35F, partner is 41M. We have been together nearly 3 years. I am currently 18 weeks pregnant with our first.
He is sat in his office which is actually the breakfast room attached to the kitchen but has its own set of patio doors that open outwards into the garden. The doors are not sheltered and we don't own a gazebo that we could put in front of the door.
I came down from my office to grab a drink and noticed he had the patio doors wide open, it was raining really hard outside and rain was soaking onto the insides of the doors (uPVC) and onto the floor in the breakfast room.
(Apologies, this is really petty)
He was on a video call, so I went back upstairs and sent him a message "Could you shut the back doors when you get a chance please, rain is getting inside and it might cause problems with the floor and doors. Thank you x x x x"
I went back down about half an hour later to grab an extension cable from the garage and he said;
"Oh fine, I'll close the doors then. I'm not allowed fresh air."
I responded with "I'm sorry, I just don't want to doors being soaked from the inside and the floor will warp if its soaked all day. Of course you can have fresh air, there is a desk fan behind you, another one I can bring in for you and the window behind you can be opened so that the rain doesn't get inside the house"
To that, he said "Ok, I said fine. You do realise that this is a massive change to how I usually live? I'd have the doors and windows open all the time in my old place, even when it was raining hard."
When I tried to respond to this, he shouted at me saying he has to get back on his work call, so I shouted back at him that he was horrible and I wanted him to leave me alone. Which was wrong and I totally regret it. I had had just about enough of his brattish behaviour. He acts like a toddler who is being told off. All I did was ask him nicely to close it and gave sound reason as to why I thought it wasn't a good idea we didn't have the patio doors open when it's raining outside. It shouldn't have been a big deal. He acted like I was trying to punish him.
So silly, I know, and we will resolve it later when we can talk. But this is a behaviour he displays a lot about various things. I just wanted your opinions on this type of behaviour. Could I have done something differently? Am I being unreasonable to think he is being a brat? Am I the real problem?
Thank you