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No idea why he is avoiding me!One for the guys.

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AllDressedUpForMyselfOnly · 16/06/2020 20:55

Ok so I'm a chilled out woman.I live and let live and get on with everyone.I have one male friend and we are just friends.I have known him for a while.We get on well,I have been nothing but nice towards him (as I am with everyone else).I care for him and he knows that.(Again,only as a friend) Recently he has started acting all strange with me,like totally avoiding me!I cant ask him why because he has blocked me so I cant contact him. I am very confused because we have not had any arguments, we dont even argue!None of my other friends have ever done this which is why I can't stop thinking about why this one is avoiding me when he's just a friend!I did think there could be a girlfriend involved but I have known him for years and he's had relationship with girls in the past and has never done this before!I miss him!

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PerfidiousAlbion · 16/06/2020 21:13

He was probably interested in you and has now got the hump because you’ve friendzoned him.

Gobbycop · 16/06/2020 21:13

At a guess he's wanting more than friendship and is distancing as he doesn't know how you'll react.

Jul1911 · 16/06/2020 21:17

He's fallen for you

samyeagar · 16/06/2020 21:19

Or he has met someone, and the closeness of your relationship is awkward

Tootsietoes · 16/06/2020 21:26

My guess would be he's met someone who doesn't like your closeness or he feels he shouldn't be so close to another woman.

Or as others said he's trying to not like you

AllDressedUpForMyselfOnly · 16/06/2020 22:33

I've known him for years and I miss him.We get on so well and have a laugh.He's had girlfriends in the past and has never done this with me.

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BlokeHereInPeace · 16/06/2020 22:36

Could be anything. Us men can do all those things. Sorry.

illclapwheniminpressed · 16/06/2020 22:51

Did you put anything on social media that he may of not agreed with?

AllDressedUpForMyselfOnly · 16/06/2020 22:58

@illclapwheniminpressed no I didn't put anything on social media!I know I have not done anything or said amything to upset him so just very confused.

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minimummum · 16/06/2020 23:05

Do you have a mutual friend you could ask?

BlessYourCottonSocks · 16/06/2020 23:12

To be honest I would not waste my time and energy in wondering why. Anyone who blocks you so that you can't contact them, without any reason or explanation, isn't a friend and isn't someone I want in my life.

Don't give him any headspace. Shrug and move on.

Notthefutureyet · 16/06/2020 23:48

If it's only on social media he might have deactivated his account?

AllDressedUpForMyselfOnly · 17/06/2020 12:50

No he's actually blocked my calls too.No mutual friend either I could ask.Oh well!I'll just have to leave him to it,except it has left me very confused!

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BigBoosh · 17/06/2020 12:57

Jealous girlfriend.

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