Should I login to his snapchat?

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My partner and I had an argument and he has ghosted me since. He hasn’t replied to my last message and I’ve noticed he hasn’t been online on anything either which is unusual.

I’m hurt that he’s ghosted me and possibly this is his way of ending it, but I’m also worried something may have happened as usually if we’ve fallen out and ‘broken up’ he would say so and/or delete me from everything. But he hasn’t.

I don’t want to involve his family or friends and look silly if he’s just ignoring me and nothing/no one else. I think I remember his snapchat password and this is what he uses the most - if you were me, would you login to see if he’s replied to anyone? If he hasn’t then it’ll make me think more that something is maybe up and if he is replying to others, I know it’s ended but he just never told me.

Honest answers please.

Can't you contact his mum to check he's ok? Does sound odd if he not just ghosted you but disappeared off everything.

Personally I would be sorely tempted with the Snapchat. But I know very bad so of course would definitely stop myself. ...

I’m also worried something may have happened as usually if we’ve fallen out and ‘broken up’ he would say so and/or delete me from everything. But he hasn’t

Sounds like arguing and breaking up is a regular thing.

Doesn't sound like a great relationship, maybe stay broken up and look for someone else?

It sounds like he's trying to fool you into getting a reaction, and it's worked beautifully. Like a child who has gone off and hidden in their favourite hiding spot when they've been told off by their parents, sound familiar?

He's fine, you're jumping to his tune like the Pied Piper. (Sp?)

Read his Snapchat, if you must. But don't keep chasing this one. It gets pretty boring very quickly. It also sounds like he's doing this simply to put you in your place, so you don't behave badly again, my exH did this. Don't be me. Kick him to the kerb NOW!