Does anyone else's DP/DH not seem to care sometimes??
Had to take DD to casualty last night as she decided to swallow a pebble, as you do. Anyway to cut a long story short, DD is fine now (they have said it is small enough to pass through her system - YUK!) but I am really cross with DP.
When we got to casualty they said there would be up to a 4 hr wait to see a doctor so I sent DP home saying there was no point both of us waiting around and I would call him with an update or for him to collect us. He said if it was before 11pm call him and he would pick us up, after that he was going to bed!!
THEN, we are supposed to be going to our local pub later in the week and he usually goes earlier to meet his dad and I go later when DD is in bed and the babysitter has arrived. Anyway, there was a very serious sexual assault just around the corner from our house (a woman followed into her own home by a stranger) so we are all a bit nervous about walking about on our own at the mo. I mentioned this to DP, thinking he would suggest going to the pub a bit later TOGETHER, but no, he suggested I drive to the pub instead. Because that would be safer!!
I just feel that sometimes he doesn't care. I wouldn't want him to be checking my every move but it really riles me sometimes that he seems totally unconcerned with my whereabouts or safety (or feelings for that matter!). I sure he would only wonder where I was once I'd been missing for a fortnight and the fridge was empty.
God sorry, that was a major rant! Thanks if you've read this far!
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