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Cant decide how to move on.

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SissyLongStockings · 10/06/2020 12:06

I have recently split from someone and I have the opportunity for my dc and I to move back to the other side of the country where my family will be close by.
But I like where I am. I have a good job, the people are nice and I feel settled.
But i am here on my own. My two dc would go to better schools and I would be near my family- but I dont think I would be happy. I think I would struggle. Torn between the two. Any advice or help would be appreciated

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Bunnymumy · 10/06/2020 13:20

Is it possible you could get a job transfer?
If not, fo you have enough savings to move if you have to look for a while?

If yes to those, I say move. Sometimes we need a fresh start.

Bunnymumy · 10/06/2020 13:22

Ah wait, my mistake. You mean would be happier staying? Then stay!

Dont go anywhere you wont be happy.

NoMoreDickheads · 10/06/2020 13:43

Stay where you are as you will be happier.

I went to a 'good school' and it was emotionally cold and focused solely on grades.

Your DC will do ok at school where they are, as I'm sure they'll have your support.

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